jane
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In other news, I posted on the No Way, Referee! forum a bit during the World Cup. It was fine.
Yes, but that doesn't mean it's necessarily woman-friendly. Did you try to post about women's sports? I once did. Bad idea.
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In other news, I posted on the No Way, Referee! forum a bit during the World Cup. It was fine.
Yes, but that doesn't mean it's necessarily woman-friendly. Did you try to post about women's sports? I once did. Bad idea.
There are very few gay people on Thumped (or at least very few people who are out in the Thumped context), and a lot of casual homophobia. I don't know if the two are connected, but I find a lot of the casual homophobia a real problem, and I know I'm not alone. It makes me uncomfortable, so I can't imagine how it would make a queer person feel. Or a straight guy who can't 'take it'. Because if a dude is 'oversensitive' about being jokingly called a 'faggot', then he is obviously under suspicion of being A GAY.
These threads always end up the same way......
The women on these boards are just so......defensive with their agressiveness or should that be so aggresive with their defensiveness![]()
These threads always end up the same way......
The women on these boards are just so......defensive with their agressiveness or should that be so aggresive with their defensiveness![]()
These threads always end up the same way......
The women on these boards are just so......defensive with their agressiveness or should that be so aggresive with their defensiveness![]()
here here. i have gay friends who have been attacked, insulted and assaulted for their sexuality, so i have a serious issue with homophobia. the way the word "faggot" is thrown about makes me quite angry, and as i have said before, i see no difference between the intention and use of that word as i do with the word "nigger". both have been, and are, used to harm. the straight man who calls someone a "faggot" is exactly the same as the white man who calls someone a "nigger".
maybe i'm just a big-girls blouse, but i would rather be that than a pathetic, insecure, macho idiot who finds amusement in sneering at, insulting and lazily attempting to "shock" or upset people.
although someone derepped me saying 'grow up'.
I have derepped everyone wether subscriber or not and I leave my name.......an amusing thing i have found about these anonymous de-reppers is that they really only do it to people who aren't subscribers. it proves as always that behind these sad bullies and their impotent posturing lies nothing more than cowardace.
WTF are u on, feminist crack cocaine?Me, too.
I also sort of wonder if it isn't somehow 'safer' for a straight woman to be seen as challenging homophobia than a straight man. As in, it might be one of those environments where a straight woman is less likely to feel constrained by gender expectations. But I dunno. I'm just making an assumption, based on imaginary conversations, so I can't say anything concrete. I'm not saying women are more likely to be in favour of it, but that it's maybe more easily incorporated into feminist discourse...
I have the utmost respect for a dude who isn't under any societal obligation (well, you know what I mean -- who could easily sink into white, male, hetero-privilege and not even think about the rest of things) to challenge homophobia or sexism, chooses to do so. Because it's tough enough for a chick to do it, but a different sort of challenge for a dude. Risking being seen as a big girl's blouse is at least as much of a risk as being seen as a bearded lesbian. Like you, though, I'd rather someone assume I was a lesbian than assume I tolerate or support homophobia.
Risking being seen as a big girl's blouse is at least as much of a risk as being seen as a bearded lesbian. Like you, though, I'd rather someone assume I was a lesbian than assume I tolerate or support homophobia.
Another thing I noticed is that the girls always back each other up to the hilt but the blokes don't..........
Brian wtf are u on about?? The women on these boards are well capable of looking after themselves and they seem as tough as nuts to me, only reason why I jest with 'em at times is to see this![]()
I have derepped everyone wether subscriber or not and I leave my name.......
Another thing I noticed is that the girls always back each other up to the hilt but the blokes don't..........
Brian wtf are u on about?? The women on these boards are well capable of looking after themselves and they seem as tough as nuts to me, only reason why I jest with 'em at times is to see this![]()
But ur defending of them too is tedious.....they want to be treated as equal they should go along with the normal run o' the mill jokes that the blokes do/to be frank, your "jesting" with the women on here is extremely tedious. it would do you a lot of good to give it a rest.
I don't read your posts once they start rambling on.....try a reply with 10 words or less.....think of the workload you give my brain !bingFuck you, JANER. So we're tough as nuts, and therefore, instead of having any respect for women, you just think, "GReat, she's tough, I can be even more insulting! Whoopeee! Fun for me!" Brian isn't trying to protect the women, Janer, he actually respects women. Seriously. You should try it.
Maybe there seems to be less consensus among the male posters is less to do with them, and more to do with the idea that when posting things in relation to feminist issues, many of the female posters on here who choose to participate in those discussions (note that I did not say 'the girls on here') will be careful to post mostly things that they can substantiate. Because they can be substantiated, they tend to be part of arguments that other women who are either feminists or sympathetic to feminism have either heard, or which make sense to them, and therefore receive positive responses from other women. Not because the women are 'better' or have some sort of secret underground conspiracy to back each other up, but because, in a very general sense, women are more likely to be asked to justify or explain statements, whereas men are less likely to be asked to do this.
One thing I noticed was that I personally don't always respond to the sympathetic or positive things that some of the male posters end up saying on these threads (see Corey's posts) but actually, I end up spending so much time fielding pointless criticism about things I never said that there just isn't time.
One thing that I do feel confident in saying, and that is self-explanatory is: FUCK YOU, JANER.
But ur defending of them too is tedious.....they want to be treated as equal they should go along with the normal run o' the mill jokes that the blokes do/
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