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y'know jane, if there's one thing abominable abdominal surgery makes you realise it's the importance of a high-fibre diet
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y'know jane, if there's one thing abominable abdominal surgery makes you realise it's the importance of a high-fibre diet
There are very few gay people on Thumped (or at least very few people who are out in the Thumped context.
It reminds me of a friend of mine whose parents are separated. He went to Belvedere and during a religion class in first year they were discussing something to do with families. When he asked about families with separated parents, one of the guys in his class turned around and said "Je-sus. This isn't America."
There are definitely some around though and I find it bizarre that either people assume everyone on thumped is straight or just don't give a shit about how offensive they are.
It reminds me of a friend of mine whose parents are separated. He went to Belvedere and during a religion class in first year they were discussing something to do with families. When he asked about families with separated parents, one of the guys in his class turned around and said "Je-sus. This isn't America."
Dude was joking.
I should probably be quoting Jane's post but I'd like to add that the whole "prod" thing on thumped gets my goat regularly.
There are definitely some around though and I find it bizarre that either people assume everyone on thumped is straight or just don't give a shit about how offensive they are.
It reminds me of a friend of mine whose parents are separated. He went to Belvedere and during a religion class in first year they were discussing something to do with families. When he asked about families with separated parents, one of the guys in his class turned around and said "Je-sus. This isn't America."
Come on. 800 years never gets old.
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I could argue as a woman that I find the shoe shopping and make-up threads to be sexist in that they are promoting a stereotype of womanly behaviour.
No, no he wasn't.
Still, it's good to know if I or anyone I know ever has a problem establishing the tone of a conversation, we have somewhere to turn.
What I'm saying is: norms get to be norms for reasons beyond maintainance of a hierarchy.
well as a man I find them condescending to say the least.
There's a football forum on Thumped but nowhere does it say 'hey men, football over here', and you don't get that type of bullshit in the forum either. so why the need for it when it comes to shoe shopping? I like shoe shopping and I resent the notion that there's some sort of gender exclusivity associated with it in those threads.
I have a bit of a problem with the concept of norms as some sort of prison that we can't escape from (but as a white hetero male, I would say that, wouldn't I?) - because in some cases it can be powerfully deployed to shut down debate. It's a useful tool for self-knowledge and getting your head around power relations, but the assumption that you're probably, for example, talking to a heterosexual on Thumped is actually reasonably sensible in terms of statistical probability. What I'm saying is: norms get to be norms for reasons beyond maintainance of a hierarchy.
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