I forget the details, but I think you need one stay at home parent and a certain income level.
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ok. cheersI forget the details, but I think you need one stay at home parent and a certain income level.
thats how i read magazinesi really should of started reading this thread from the start as opposed to starting from the end and working backwards.
if Janer was here he'd say that people who don't want babies are just selfish and self-absorbed, and ye'd all have a good go at him. ah...good times.
Janer is 42, with two lady friends and no children... hmm... yes... I can see your point.
I know, it's bizzare, the reactions to it. I don't have a car - that's a choice I've made but I don't get particularly emotional reactions to not having a car. .
I forget the details, but I think you need one stay at home parent and a certain income level.
ok. cheers
more details here http://www.adoptionboard.ie/domestic/nonfamily.php but nothing about what I heard about / said above. I suppose it falls under the somewhat subjective "suitability" criteria.
i'm young and it can totally change, and i used to get stuck into endless conversations about this but now never want to talk about it unless it's with a really close friend, or a long-term partner it would affect.)
(being grilled extensively about having ever been in counselling - seriously, i know very few people who haven't, and i don't see that as necessarily positive) and it dug up a ton of stuff they had been through.
Do they want people who have, or have never been to counselling?
As for international adoption, there are certainly ethical issues. Mostly everyone involved means well, but it's still difficult. This is a really good article by a woman who adopted a Guatemalan child here: http://www.motherjones.com/news/feature/2007/11/did-i-steal-my-daughter.html
I thought that was dodgy too. Well, maybe dodgy is too strong a word. It still didn't seem like a good enough reason to me.That's a pretty interesting article. Speaking as somebody who has no kids, I find it strange that the reason she gives for adopting is that they were only willing to be parents again if the child were a girl. What?
I thought that was dodgy too. Well, maybe dodgy is too strong a word. It still didn't seem like a good enough reason to me.
article said:people have been parenting children not born to them since the dawn of time. But adoption as an irrevocable severing of a child's relationship with her biological family is largely a European and American practice.
article said:But adoption as an irrevocable severing of a child's relationship with her biological family
That's a pretty interesting article. Speaking as somebody who has no kids, I find it strange that the reason she gives for adopting is that they were only willing to be parents again if the child were a girl. What?
While I don't necesarily agree with choosing the sex of your child, I do understand it. My sister in law has 3 boys and would so love a girl. Part of me thinks it's a silly attitude, part of me understands why she would want a girl.
That's a bad thing is it?
My sister wanted a boy when she was having her first child. Her husband didn't (he got teased a lot because of his surname and felt a girl wouldn't have to deal with it). They had a girl. Second child round they both wanted another girl, but most people my sister said this too refused to believe that a man could NOT want to have a son and I found myself having to defend my sis several times.
It was really weird, yet another thing that people didn't seem to be able to mind their own business about. Fair enough, they asked my sis and she answered. But the rest of us should have had to deal with "Don't you think it's awful for poor (sister's husband) that (sister) doesn't want a boy? He must want a son." "No, he doesn't. He never wanted to have a boy. Now mind your own business and stop gossiping maliciously about my sister and her husband."
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