Diddles
Well-Known Member
I lent someone some money at the start of the year and he promised to pay me back within a couple of months. During the summer he was saying he had no money so I gave him an extension until the end of September, which has come and gone. He hasn't mentioned paying me back since but in the meantime he's been going on about buying a flat screen telly, unnecessary extra computer for his kids etc. etc. But I think his priority should be to pay me back. I'm at a loss about what to do or say. I reckon this guy knows that we have some savings so thinks we don't need this money back.
Now, I have someone who is potentially in desperate need of cash. It's a total fucking emergency. I really want to lend her some cash, but am afraid to offer her money in case I end up in the same situation. She didn't ask for a lend by the way.
I can't keep lending out money if people are going to take the piss. We're trying to save a few bob for the first time in our lives and it just seems to be pissing back out again.
The money lent to the first person was just to tide them over but this second person is in desperate need.
Advice please!
Now, I have someone who is potentially in desperate need of cash. It's a total fucking emergency. I really want to lend her some cash, but am afraid to offer her money in case I end up in the same situation. She didn't ask for a lend by the way.
I can't keep lending out money if people are going to take the piss. We're trying to save a few bob for the first time in our lives and it just seems to be pissing back out again.
The money lent to the first person was just to tide them over but this second person is in desperate need.
Advice please!