Ok, I'm gonna take the approach of ignoring it and hoping she doesn't notice, and if she does, I'll combine these two approaches -- technocackhandery and facebook not-usingery -- to explain why I didn't notice.
I also have a mounting list of 'pending' people, but this one might not appreciate the pend.
Tanks doods.
hey, I "ignore" people all the time! otherwise you're just some Facebook slut and no one will respect you or your "friendship"
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