Being Felt up by a Stranger at a Gig - GUYS ONLY THREAD (2 Viewers)

[rettucs]

The important thing is that I'm still alive to tell the tale

alive yes. But you could be pregnant though

 

[BonsaiSuperstar]

Seriously though, yes maybe it was all an accident and I did not become incredibly irrestible overnight. The important thing is that I'm still alive to tell the tale

maybe you dressed too sexily and were asking for it?

 

[snakybus]

a playful smack on the arse usually works when you want to get past someone i find.
especially with girls, they move almost instantly.

The two-handed reacharound boobgrab - faux pas or acceptable friendly social touching?

 

[Lili Marlene]

maybe you dressed too sexily and were asking for it?

I was wearing a tie

 

[David Kronenbourg]

The two-handed reacharound boobgrab - faux pas or acceptable friendly social touching?

sound. turbo crotch charge at the nearest female in the vicinity. better than a wank? debatable. assault my hole. not literally. i'm no freak

 

[nlgbbbblth]

if you're sure it's deliberate then the best course of action is to confront them verbally. And loudly.

If they start laughing at you then hit them.

Benefits

1) You'll probably feel better
2) They're less likely to do it again - so you'll be saving someone else the potential trauma

 

[Lili Marlene]

if you're sure it's deliberate then the best course of action is to confront them verbally. And loudly.

If they start laughing at you then hit them.

Benefits

1) You'll probably feel better
2) They're less likely to do it again - so you'll be saving someone else the potential trauma

would YOU interrupt 'and that's no lie'?

 

[Cormcolash]

This thread is a disgrace. How dare you suggest that something like this could happen to a man? How will women feel suitably outraged about this sort of behaviour if it happens to men too?
You're clearly a liar and I will make sure you are barred from all the women-only gigs in town, if you're not already barred from them for not being a woman.

 

[nlgbbbblth]

would YOU interrupt 'and that's no lie'?

the greatest ever Heaven 17 song!

five different sleeves for the 12" !

No, I'd wait till it finished.

 

[Squiggle]

I wasn't trying to steal your 'thunder' at being felt up... just point out that it could have been accidental.

It could also be that some women are becoming as predatory as some men traditionally have been. I don't like being crowded or touched by strangers at all. I've had panic attacks in the past.

Possible ways of dealing with unwanted physical contact (that I've used):
Ask them to stop, if they don't move away.
Have a male friend (female friend in your case) stand between you and the offending stranger.
Sly dig with an elbow, or flick (but that won't work so well with women) while 'dancing'
Talk to a bouncer (guy might find this too embarrassing)
Leave

Hope that helps

 

[Kid Lovebeach]

a girl touched my willy without permission in the stephen's green shopping centre recently.
she was walking with very swingy arms and i wasn't watching where i was going.

i've been back there every day since but theres no sign of her and her mallet like fists.

 

[Cormcolash]

It could also be that some women are becoming as predatory as some men traditionally have been.

Haha good one.

I'm getting negative rep for this thread. I don't get it, what did I do wrong? Did I exclude the wrong gender or something?

 

[Lili Marlene]

the greatest ever Heaven 17 song!

five different sleeves for the 12" !

No, I'd wait till it finished.

pity they didn't play it then
They did play Being Boiled though.

I wasn't trying to steal your 'thunder' at being felt up... just point out that it could have been accidental.

it's ok, I was only kidding.

It could also be that some women are becoming as predatory as some men traditionally have been. I don't like being crowded or touched by strangers at all. I've had panic attacks in the past.

Possible ways of dealing with unwanted physical contact (that I've used):
Ask them to stop, if they don't move away.
Have a male friend (female friend in your case) stand between you and the offending stranger.
Sly dig with an elbow, or flick (but that won't work so well with women) while 'dancing'
Talk to a bouncer (guy might find this too embarrassing)
Leave

Hope that helps

I dealt with it by moving away sharpish the moment the band ended. thanks though

 

[snakybus]

Talk to a bouncer

hahahahahaha

"Excuse me Mr Gorilla, sir. A girl keeps bumping into me and trying to feel me up. It's really upsetting! Can you speak to her and explain that B is for Boundaries? I just want to be respected!"

 

[Squiggle]

hahahahahaha

"Excuse me Mr Gorilla, sir. A girl keeps bumping into me and trying to feel me up. It's really upsetting! Can you speak to her and explain that B is for Boundaries? I just want to be respected!"

Yeah, well I did say it probably wouldn't work Mr Sarkypants!

 

[Scientician 0.8]

I got accused of secretly taking pictures of girls with my phone the other night in the village. The first question would be why the fuck would I bother? Anyway, my phone is a piece of cheap shit and merely receives and makes calls and receives and sends texts. It took me ages to explain this fact to my accuser.

 

[snakybus]

Yeah, well I did say it probably wouldn't work Mr Sarkypants!

No, it's a GREAT idea. I recommend all men do this. Another good idea would be to go to one of those all-male bath houses where there are no nasty, predatory women. The male camaraderie is great, and you have the freedom to walk around wearing nothing but a skimpy hand towel!

 

[Cormcolash]

Anyway, my phone is a piece of cheap shit and merely receives and makes calls and receives and sends texts.

Yeah, sure *THROWS OUT OF CLUB*

 

[avernus]

Being groped by a stranger is totally unacceptable and all of you "the only crime here is that she isn't doing it with me" pricks have probably just never been in a situation like that. Either that or you're some repugnant perverts who squeeze random butts and breasts in crowded bars and think it's cool and sexy.

 

[Mormon Nailer]

Being groped by a stranger is totally unacceptable and all of you "the only crime here is that she isn't doing it with me" pricks have probably just never been in a situation like that. Either that or you're some repugnant perverts who squeeze random butts and breasts in crowded bars and think it's cool and sexy.

Brian?
Is that you?