Being Felt up by a Stranger at a Gig - GUYS ONLY THREAD (1 Viewer)

[Lili Marlene]

it's not easy being apparently this handsome

 

[Jill Hives]

female.

they were behind me and they kept touching me. and when I asked them what was the deal they grabbed me by the waist and rubbed up and down and said 'Oh, i'm sorry, I keep bumping into you'.

YEAH AWESOME GO FOR IT

no.

Sorry, I'll keep my hands to myself from now on. There was no need to post about it. Sheesh!

 

[Hector Grey]

it's not easy being apparently this handsome

from the back?

have you a nice arse?

 

[HMD]

if you just stand there and left her go rasher it doesn't count as cheating.

edit: are you sure it wasn't a bloke dressed up as a lady?

 

[Lili Marlene]

edit: are you sure it wasn't a bloke dressed up as a lady?

could have been. It's not like that makes me feel any better though

 

[mr pharmacist!!!!1]

sorry to hear about that john, hope your alright. a good sit down and a hug will help you forget about your ordeal.

 

[Moods For Mallards]

She was just being nostalgiac.

 

[snakybus]

Hang on though, bumping into someone isn't feeling them up, and holding someone's waist could be read as a polite, non-sexy thing, like when you're trying to get past someone in a crowded area. When someone is talking to you, and they touch your arm to make a point, is that sexy?

 

[snakybus]

Playing devil's avocado here, of course. I'd have had to loosen the old collar meself, like.

 

[Jill Hives]

Hang on though, bumping into someone isn't feeling them up, and holding someone's waist could be read as a polite, non-sexy thing, like when you're trying to get past someone in a crowded area. When someone is talking to you, and they touch your arm to make a point, is that sexy?

That's a bit much. It would make me feel uncomfortable unless I knew the person and even then it's a bit dodge unless I was sleeping with them. A hand on the back to get by, yeah sure. The waist? No way.

 

[HMD]

When someone is talking to you, and they touch your arm to make a point, is that sexy?

if by arm you mean mickey then yes it is.

 

[Moods For Mallards]

What's so private about your waist? There's a reason why they're called 'move handles'. So people can move you.

 

[David Kronenbourg]

In psychiatry, the clinical term frotteurism (no longer called frottage) refers to a specific paraphilia which involves the non-consensual rubbing against another person to achieve sexual arousal. The contact is usually with the hands or the genitals and may involve touching any part of the body including the genital area. The majority of frotteurs are male and the majority of victims are female,[1] although female on male, female on female, and male on male frotteurs exist. Adult on child frotteurism is a common early stage in child sexual abuse.[2] This non-consensual activity may be done discreetly without being discovered, or in circumstances where the victim cannot respond, typically in a public place such as a crowded train, or at a rock concert. In common speech frotteurism is called groping though this term may sometimes be used for consensual Frottage.
Usually such nonconsensual sexual contact is viewed as criminal offense: a form of sexual assault albeit often classified as a misdemeanor with minor legal penalties. Conviction may result in a sentence including compulsory psychiatric treatment.[3] A person who practices frotteurism is known as a frotteur.

 

[Lili Marlene]

Hang on though, bumping into someone isn't feeling them up,

agreed

and holding someone's waist could be read as a polite, non-sexy thing, like when you're trying to get past someone in a crowded area.

sure

When someone is talking to you, and they touch your arm to make a point, is that sexy?

I don't know.

None of those apply here though. If I did what she did it would be sexual harrassment plain and simple.

It was weird, kind of funny in retrospect but made me feel pretty uncomfortable at the time.

 

[therealjohnny]

This happened me recently- in an attempt to pinch my arse as I was standing by the bar this girl managed to grab some scrotum and almost put a thumb up my hole

But I feel it was my fault

for being so dashed attractive and standing there, all provocative like

I is John- perhaps some sort of support group might resolve these issues

A cool name would be the first thing to condsider

 

[snakybus]

well, I dunno, it wouldn't bother me anyway

 

[Squiggle]

None of those apply here though. If I did what she did it would be sexual harrassment plain and simple.

Was she rubbing up against you or bumping into you? Is is possible she was very drunk and having trouble keeping her balance?

The rubbing up and down your waist could have been an attempt to cover her gaffe/embarrassment by embarrassing you - or it could have been a come-on.

Anyway, I know how uncomfortable something like that can make you feel and it's a pity that equality = ladette these days.

 

[Reets]

maybe she was using you to help her jump up to see the band and kept accidently rubbing you, done it myself thinking the guy in front of me was the friend i was there with, he was cool about it though.

 

[BonsaiSuperstar]

like when you're trying to get past someone in a crowded area.

a playful smack on the arse usually works when you want to get past someone i find.
especially with girls, they move almost instantly.

 

[Lili Marlene]

Was she rubbing up against you or bumping into you? Is is possible she was very drunk and having trouble keeping her balance?

The rubbing up and down your waist could have been an attempt to cover her gaffe/embarrassment by embarrassing you - or it could have been a come-on.

Anyway, I know how uncomfortable something like that can make you feel and it's a pity that equality = ladette these days.

maybe she was using you to help her jump up to see the band and kept accidently rubbing you, done it myself thinking the guy in front of me was the friend i was there with, he was cool about it though.

wow, now I know why there's so few convictions in rape claims

Seriously though, yes maybe it was all an accident and I did not become incredibly irrestible overnight. The important thing is that I'm still alive to tell the tale