I've since apologised to my nephew who I got really angry with last week - for shouting at him. Told him it wouldn't happen again. I didn't apolgise for what I said. I pointed out it was a reasonable request.
I had only bad argument ever with a nephew this afternoon. What I said was entirely warranted but when he wouldn't listen I had to ramp up to shouting three times.
Just wanted him not to eat / share chocolate in front of 4 year old who had a few minutes earlier said their tummy was a bit sore from eating lunch + most of a cup cake.
Sorry it came to this but I was completely ignored by older kid and wasn't going to let a 4 year old get sick.
Older kid got his chocolate back after young kid was gone.
I absolutely hate chocolate and sweets and have been cleaning up sweet wrappers for over 20 years from various kids.
This was first time ever I ever got angry over him eating sweets.