Corm
New Member
problems i've had with male sexual behaviour:
sense of entitlement to intercourse
At what point? When you first meet?
selfishness with regard to orgasm
That's as easily applied to women as it is to men.
irritating objectification (aka grabbing, sense of ownership of woman)
Again, is this with people you've gone out with, or the common-or-garden "man off the street"? I've had the same problem with women, actually it's been the most common thing that's made me finish at an early stage with people that I've otherwise liked.
patronising attitude to concerns of woman - e.g. you don't want to do what i want, therefore you're repressed/boring/unadventurous (aka i'm annoyed you won't let me ride you up the arse).)
I think this is more about unfortunate choice of sexual partner than about "men". With both men and women I've been with, some have been extraordinarily boring, unadventurous, rediculously self-conscious & cluelessly selfish, and others (a lot less) have been absolutely mind-blowing, amazingly conscious of my needs aswell as their own, fantastically uninhibited and astoundingly attuned to the fact that it's a two way thing.
The other thing is, that women are very very different than men when it comes to orgasm. Some girls, you could spend all night with them and they'll either get nowhere or be on the edge for hours. Others, they'll come 3, 4, 5, sometimes a dozen or more times. It's about finding the right partner, whoever fits right with your body and your expression and gets you off, there's no "rules" other than just be clear with people about what you want & what you don't want. And if they don't respect that, leave.