David Kronenbourg
Well-Known Member
playaI have dates with 3 women in the next week. I am mad with power or something.
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playaI have dates with 3 women in the next week. I am mad with power or something.
I have dates with 3 women in the next week. I am mad with power or something.
and expensive, no??This turned into 4 in a week. Which was kind of exhausting.
and expensive, no??
You're right. It is.I have given up on attempting to attract a mate. It is fucking pointless.
I have given up on attempting to attract a mate. It is fucking pointless. I'll marry a bottle of Jameson instead.
You're right. It is.
I have given up on attempting to attract a mate. It is fucking pointless. I'll marry a bottle of Jameson instead.
Lottery winners will always think the lottery is a great thing.Nope, Pete's right. It just seems pointless up to the point when you realise that it isn't, because you've found that person who is worth giving up some stuff for because they add so much more.
Lottery winners will always think the lottery is a great thing.
Fact is, even the people that find someone they want and wants them back, and both decide that life together forever makes life apart unbearable. Even those lucky people that get there, to marriage, half of those relationships end in divorce. Messy, painful, destructive divorce.
Out of the fifty-odd percent that stay married, what percentage you reckon just go through the motions and stay the course in misery, out of habit or fear or financial necessity or God knows what? Chained to someone they can't stand or feel nothing for?
I don't know what that percentage is, but it's not zero.
And that's if you're even "lucky" enough to find someone you love enough to get married to.
So many others spend a whole lifetime trying to get there, because they're sold a bill of goods by pop songs, the movies, their peers, their families, and the world at large that true happiness lies only in finding someone to spend their lives with, and the alternative is pitiable loneliness. Codswallop.
The numbers say, nay they scream, that marriage and coupledom is not for everyone. The data show it is for the few. Those that are willing to do the work, ignore the pain and make sacrifice and compromise part of their daily life, surrendering part of themselves for betterment of the pair. For those few, these signed acts of the relationship world, it's worth it. And they go about telling everyone to learn guitar and get on a major label.
When for most people, they are far better off just finding out what suits them and being comfortable with it and owning it.
If someone's at the point, where they're saying it's not worth it, they've reached a moment of clarity. For them, it is clearly not worth it.
Happy Valentine's Day, everyone. I love you all!
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