Diddles
Well-Known Member
I did say common interests, not just music. Music is important for slightly different reasons.
I think you're on your own little tangent and there's no talking to you. I'm not saying music is a sole issue either, but it's you that keeps going on about it so I used it as an example. Myself and my husband have lots of separate interests and also lots of common ones. What I am trying to say to you, without much success, is that having presumptions about other people will guarantee that you will never have any common interests, as you will never get to know them properly.
Because it takes time, perseverance and hard work to get to know someone. Some people will turn out to be a waste of your time but some won't. If you're not prepared to bother your bollix you won't get anywhere.