Not even a little bit.
That's cool so. It's just a topic I've become a bit sensitive about in the past while, the go-to org for the media on adoption issues here are pretty bad for using language which marginalises adoptive families and whenever I hear their rep on the radio she says something that ticks me off, and I've been annoyed with them for more than a week now, which is a longer stretch than usual. So perhaps I jumped on your post heavier than I should have. Sorry bout that.