We get ballysomething jumbo oats from the hopsack, they're good and don't turn into readybrekish mush.
Jumbo oats are the way to go to avoid the babyfood effect.
My typical winter breaky: 1 cup each porridge and water, sprinkling of salt, a shake of cinnamon.
Microwave for 1 min (to avoid having to wash up a gloopy porridge-congealed pot), stir, microwave for 1 min more then add honey and milk/ soya milk.
I try and use the most locally-produced honey I can find, cause if you eat it all winter it works as a homeopathic remedy for hayfever in the summer.