Parents who dont let couples sleep in the same bed.. (1 Viewer)

mucho respect. Thats a parent who really takes an active role in their child's upbringing. Pity there aren't more like him


I',m going to kill him, them mother will be mine!all mine!!

but...I've said too much
 
It's an old farmhouse so there are 5 bedrooms, but if there was a full house one or more of us (the family) would sleep on a floor if necessary. My parents aren't all that old. They just don't approve of sex outside marriage and won't facilitate it in their home, which is fair enough. I haven't lived at home for a very long time and while I was still there I didn't have a problem with the house rules. It's a non-smoking house too and I never smoke, even outside, when I visit.

You could always pack the kids off to a boarding school and make it someone else's problem :D
so you'd have to be married, eh? regardless of age. i see.
i'm not bothered by the marriage thing. just a catholic hangover, innit
 
so you'd have to be married, eh? regardless of age. i see.
i'm not bothered by the marriage thing. just a catholic hangover, innit

My folks aren't Catholic. And, judging by the fact that they made an exception for me and that one guy (because we were in a long term, committed relationship) I think it is less about the piece of paper for them and more about the casual/not casual side of things. As far as my folks were concerned we were married, and it felt like it for us too.
 
My folks aren't Catholic. And, judging by the fact that they made an exception for me and that one guy (because we were in a long term, committed relationship) I think it is less about the piece of paper for them and more about the casual/not casual side of things. As far as my folks were concerned we were married, and it felt like it for us too.
what about other guests?
i dunno, fascinatin, innit? i don't have a point of reference myself, cos i've never had to do it. and i can't remember if i ever did do it back in the day.
 
has anyone ever picked up some skank at a bar and took them back to the parents for a scuffle under the duvet?

had did that go down with the folks?

one of my mates got locked last christmas and brought home some absolute skank bag to his parents house cos he was staying there for a few days..His dad told him afterwards that it wasn't really cool and his mum was upset about it..Truth be told my mate felt awful too cos he knew that they wouldn't be happy with it..
 
how many room does your fathers house have? many?
plus, not being rude, how old are these parents... is it a generational thing or just a parent thing. my daughter, for example, better not look at a boy. in anyways, if she came home with a lad they'd both have to share the shed cos we've no space. but that that's in the future. kids will be moving out a lot earlier in the future too. i reckon 8 is long enough.

Porch. Rocking chair. Shot-gun.

Problem solved.
 
has anyone ever picked up some skank at a bar and took them back to the parents for a scuffle under the duvet?

had did that go down with the folks?

Right here! I was also considerate enough to get the turf kicked out of me while we were on the way home too, adding a fractured eye-socket to the glorious picture that met my parents when thye arrived down for breakfast the next morning.

She was'nt no skank though. shame really.
 
what about other guests?
i dunno, fascinatin, innit? i don't have a point of reference myself, cos i've never had to do it. and i can't remember if i ever did do it back in the day.

Cousins brought girlfriends/boyfriends from time to time and it was always separate rooms for them, even if my folks knew that they were living together or whatever.

Yep, it's a weird one. An English acquaintance of mine wants to come over to Dublin, with her latest fella in tow, and stay with me so I've had to think about this from a personal point of view. I decided that I wouldn't be comfortable with the idea of them sleeping together in my apartment, so they'll have to get a room elsewhere.

Does that make me Catholic?
 
Cousins brought girlfriends/boyfriends from time to time and it was always separate rooms for them, even if my folks knew that they were living together or whatever.

Yep, it's a weird one. An English acquaintance of mine wants to come over to Dublin, with her latest fella in tow, and stay with me so I've had to think about this from a personal point of view. I decided that I wouldn't be comfortable with the idea of them sleeping together in my apartment, so they'll have to get a room elsewhere.

Does that make me Catholic?
interesting... you clearly didn't lick that off the street, did ya?
 
Yep, it's a weird one. An English acquaintance of mine wants to come over to Dublin, with her latest fella in tow, and stay with me so I've had to think about this from a personal point of view. I decided that I wouldn't be comfortable with the idea of them sleeping together in my apartment, so they'll have to get a room elsewhere.

Does that make me Catholic?

Highly, highly fucking Catholic. Even if you think of yourself in non-religious terms, you sound pretty programmed by the pope.

Either thst or your anti-Brit :rolleyes:
 
Cousins brought girlfriends/boyfriends from time to time and it was always separate rooms for them, even if my folks knew that they were living together or whatever.

Yep, it's a weird one. An English acquaintance of mine wants to come over to Dublin, with her latest fella in tow, and stay with me so I've had to think about this from a personal point of view. I decided that I wouldn't be comfortable with the idea of them sleeping together in my apartment, so they'll have to get a room elsewhere.

Does that make me Catholic?

Each to their own. I think you should let them stay, but hint that you wouldn't be happy with the idea of them riding.

Or to be quiet.
 
Each to their own. I think you should let them stay, but hint that you wouldn't be happy with the idea of them riding.

i don't know, i reckon that suggesting elsewhere would suit better might be the less awkward way to go - you're comfortable, and they can do what they like - unless they really can't visit without staying with you. much better than them arriving to separate beds. (not that i think you're canvassing for opinions, squiggle!)


man, i just rephrased that several times so 'unless they can't come without...' wouldn't be in it.
 

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