maybe it depends on each child and how emotionally mature they are..i honestly dont know..but i did just feel like a really honest sadness when i realised what these kids were seeing and doing..i think part of the reason being is that knowing the kids who were doing the stuff and thier families, it seemed to me that they got to do or see the stuff because no one was particularly arsed to spend time with them doing anything else..
a lot of it came down to the fact that some kids would come in with their homework done and it was obvious someone, not neccessarily their parents, but somebody had spent enough time with them to go through it or do their shared reading or whatever..then there are the kids who play video games for hours or see ,in my opinion, unsuitable films but who cant add 2 +1 together..i think thats where a lot of my bitterness(?), im not sure if thats the right word but its close, stems from that and seeing how far behind some of those kids already are..so its probably just a mixture of things rather than just the mature content..but it sure doesnt help