Break-ups (1 Viewer)

[Lili Marlene]

how many times have you already kicked them?

 

[Los Davos]

there is no end to the wanting, unless of course you didn't really
love them.

 

[RED(tape)MENACE]

I am wondering where the justified and bitter line lays.

It should last until your next lay.

 

[Squiggle]

My exes are all dead, so I don't feel like kicking any of them any more...





... no, they're not, they're very much alive and I never felt like kicking any of them... mostly I was glad to be rid of them

But, to answer your question, I guess whether you act on it depends on how keen you are to be referred to as "my psycho ex-girlfriend" - I'd advise not to let anyone know you want to kick your ex in the shins

 

[CitySickness]

If you saw his legs off at the knee you will lose the urge, or capability, to kick him in the shins.

Just saying.

 

[Hector Grey]

Like you can freely want to kick them any time in your life or it's not appropriate and you should never in your life want to kick them? I am wondering where the justified and bitter line lays.

well, that depends on whether they were a loverat or not, doesn't it. tell me more. i can help.

 

[Jill Hives]

"my psycho ex-girlfriend"

I would never be considered that due to the fact, I have not been in contact with said person in years. Just information through the grapevine today that has made my face gone red. Hard to do, that. I think this would be considered bitter, so I will take a deep breath and then let it out. No email that starts out, "I know you probably don't want to hear this but I thought you should know..." can be good.

 

[Hector Grey]

gonorrhea?

 

[Jill Hives]

gonorrhea?

Honestly, I'd prefer that -- some meds and it's gone. Instead this will end up being like a living version of genital warts or herpes. It just might spring up on me from time to time.*









*Just to make clear, that was a metaphor and I do not have an STD.

 

[Lili Marlene]

they won the lotto?

 

[Corey]

Okay, I resurrected a very old thread (that I did not read) here.

Question: what is the appropriate amount of time one should not want to kick an ex in the shins. Like hard, really hard?

I will always have a perpetual desire to dropkick my ex; proper-like, and from a great height. But I make sure that I spend my time putting most of my energy into not wanting drop-kick her; and seeing her in a more positive light in order to keep things healthy and unacrimonious(?) for everybody involved.

I do all this in the hope that karma does actually exist; and that one day all my efforts at a non-confrontational, healthy, happy and grown up relationship with my ex will be rewarded by the Fates providing me with the very real prospect of actually getting to dropkick my ex. Proper-like, and from a great height.

 

[Squiggle]

Hate that! Exes should stay dead... eh, I mean in the past.

I will take a deep breath and then let it out.

This is the best plan, not very satisfying perhaps, but least likely to give you more reasons to have a red face in future.

An acquaintance of mine called her ex's bank and cancelled all his cards when he went on holidays with his new girlfriend. Not her finest hour.

 

[timbot]

An acquaintance of mine called her ex's bank and cancelled all his cards when he went on holidays with his new girlfriend. Not her finest hour.

Genius move though

 

[Hector Grey]

Honestly, I'd prefer that -- some meds and it's gone. Instead this will end up being like a living version of genital warts or herpes. It just might spring up on me from time to time.*









*Just to make clear, that was a metaphor and I do not have an STD.

he's pregnant?

you see, men not understanding women is part of the problem here.

 

[Froog]

wow, 16 people in this thread!

 

[CitySickness]

It just might spring up on me from time to time.

I know what this is about - did you ever go out with Adam Savage from Mythbusters?

 

[Jill Hives]

Hate that! Exes should stay dead... eh, I mean in the past.



This is the best plan, not very satisfying perhaps, but least likely to give you more reasons to have a red face in future.

I know. I know. I would never do anything like that. I am more annoyed that it even bothers me at all. I really can't believe how much I want to punch him in his sensitive pretentious nose and smash his balding head into the ground with is indy beard. Okay, just typing that made me feel a bit better. Deep breath.

 

[CitySickness]

wow, 16 people in this thread!

You'll need more than that for a lemon party.

 

[Sufi]

In my experience you stop wanting to kick them when you no longer give a shit about them. Unless your ex is a total ass, then you want to kick yourself more for going out with them in the first place.

 

[snakybus]

Violence is no the solution.

Telling us what he did, is.