Buzzo
Well-Known Member
Oly, you opened the can of worms by being sexist in the way you were talking about women at the beginning of this thread. Your sexism was a catalyst for Nooly's call for a discussion on the sexism on Eirecore and Thumped, and people’s apathy or silence about it. I don't believe you genuinely equate men's exclusion from women's only spaces as something equally pervasive, bad and worthy of discussion as sexism and gender inequality experienced by women. With all due respect, I'd like to talk about women, and sexism that we experience, without recourse to your issues with women's only spaces or feminist activism.
It's really unfortunate, but I experience sexism everyday, like EVERY day in real life. Sometimes I challenge it or shout about it, sometimes I leave it. Most days on Eirecore or Thumped I find myself having to bite my tongue in the face of casual sexism. I've kind of minimised posting on Thumped generally as it can be tiring challenging people, and disheartening ignoring it. The internet, like many have pointed out, is infinitely more problematic for this stuff: People are more likely to say offensive shit under cover of their computer, they are less likely to try to understand or apologise when there's a load of other people reading it, other people reading it are likely to deny the experience of the person offended and side with the other person etc. I know there's plently of women and men who perceive the sexism and disagree with it, but don't challenge it or speak out about it. That's cool, it's up to people to engage in whatever discussions they like on these fora, but sometimes (despite the supportive messages and rep comments that always go with these threads) you feel like you're one of a couple of voices in the wilderness around this stuff. Sometimes it's great though, sometimes people call the shit out of sexism all over Thumped and Eirecore, and sometimes people show solidarity. Mostly not though.
ps- what Dunch said!
It's really unfortunate, but I experience sexism everyday, like EVERY day in real life. Sometimes I challenge it or shout about it, sometimes I leave it. Most days on Eirecore or Thumped I find myself having to bite my tongue in the face of casual sexism. I've kind of minimised posting on Thumped generally as it can be tiring challenging people, and disheartening ignoring it. The internet, like many have pointed out, is infinitely more problematic for this stuff: People are more likely to say offensive shit under cover of their computer, they are less likely to try to understand or apologise when there's a load of other people reading it, other people reading it are likely to deny the experience of the person offended and side with the other person etc. I know there's plently of women and men who perceive the sexism and disagree with it, but don't challenge it or speak out about it. That's cool, it's up to people to engage in whatever discussions they like on these fora, but sometimes (despite the supportive messages and rep comments that always go with these threads) you feel like you're one of a couple of voices in the wilderness around this stuff. Sometimes it's great though, sometimes people call the shit out of sexism all over Thumped and Eirecore, and sometimes people show solidarity. Mostly not though.
ps- what Dunch said!