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Mumblin Deaf Ro said:For millionth and final time.
The woman wasn't forced to become pregnant, it was due to a consensual sex act in which a risk of pregnancy existed. My view is that if the pregnancy is to be undone, the both partners must consent to that, just as they did to the creation of the 'organism', or more specifically the taking of a risk that they knew may result in the creation of an 'organism'.
There's no point arguing with you jane. You have no interest in learning about my point of view. You just want to shout down and cavil with my view because you don't like it. You keep asking me whether it will be a summary/criminal offence, what about health risk, what about rape. I give you my view on all these but it becomes clear that you don't care what the answer is. You're very intolerant. All I am doing is holding a viewpoint. I'm not legislating for this single handed. You seem to have a problem with me disagreeing with you. You're so concentrated on your competitiveness that you are not open to accepting any point I make.
glen said:
but surely, if the man has the final say, as a legal and a moral position, this implies the subjugation of women? if you don't think that that logically follows, i think we've lost eachother - it seems to me like the only logical conclusion to the point.Mumblin Deaf Ro said:I think that's an articulate precis of the viewpoint I am disagreeing with. Although i understand where it comes from and respect it as intelligently worked out, the import is that a pregnancy caused by two people can be ended by the woman without the father's agreement. If the pregnancy continues against the woman's wishes, it is still true that she had an equal part in bringing it about. that's why i hold the views i hold. Again, I have never once asked anybody to agree with me; I am merely explaining why i think the way i do.
jane said:First of all, I'm totally intolerant of your view on this situation because it is intolerable. I'm not -- as you can clearly see -- the only one who won't tolerate it. I'm challenging it because it needs to be challenged. If I don't take it all that seriously, it's because it's completely ridiculous and totally unworkable, and pretty much everyone on here agrees. I'm not trying to compete with you. It's not my fault I've thought my position through, and you haven't.
I was -- and have been -- in agreement with you about both parties having a say, but you have consistently failed to acknowledge that because you're so keen on not having to explain yourself (and you still haven't, and perhaps someone might want to back me up on this, since Ro clearly doesn't see anything I say as valid), and to avoid answering for what are really quite ludicrous statements, that you haven't once acknowledged that I have clearly stated a number of times that in a good relationship, these things are negotiated and discussed. That is the opposite of 'leaving the man out of it'.
I didn't say the woman was forced to become pregnant. But under what you propose, the final say should default to the man, thus, by design, it would FORCE the woman to carry a pregnancy to term.
tom. said:again, that's not to mention the implied practicalities - that there would presumably have to be militarised jail-hospitals for these half-unwanted babies to be born in.
coraline said:My Mum just came in and saw that picture, thanks dudes
I came home to get my Dad to stick back on the wing mirror of my car which I
banged off this morning by driving ever so slightly too near a parked car. Dads are occasionally good for stuff...
ok. we'll agree to disagree on that one. but the other point: if the man has the final say, as a legal and a moral position, does this not imply the subjugation of women? like i said, if you don't think that that logically follows, i think we've lost eachother - it seems to me like the only logical conclusion.Mumblin Deaf Ro said:Tom. I adressed this earlier. There is no need to police the pregnancy, but the father would have recourse through the courts after the fact if his 'potential child' (shall we call it) had been aborted without his consent.
1000smurfs said:should the daddy have a legal right to the dna of the baby? this could be obtained during the abortion and then used to create a clone, in 2012 or whenever,if the man can find a willing surrogate. I'm sort of serious, I can't see how how he shouldn't be entitled to that.
tom. said:but surely, if the man has the final say, as a legal and a moral position, this implies the subjugation of women? if you don't think that that logically follows, i think we've lost eachother - it seems to me like the only logical conclusion to the point.
again, that's not to mention the implied practicalities - that there would presumably have to be militarised jail-hospitals for these half-unwanted babies to be born in.
mazzyianne said:Ok, my level of pissed-off-ness has reached an all time high,
Tom just said exactly the same thing I have said 2 or 3 times and you ignored, Ro.
Anyways, he got an answer, I cant work out what it means... Something about what is of import not being who carries the child but who caused the pregnancy?
Is that it?
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