ps. I meant to add that in a strange way, this thread (and the "Twitter God help us" one) over the last few days got me thinking about the past, and various things that you navigate as a girl and a woman-par for the course. When I first went to college, along with little packs that all Freshers get-the women got given rape whistles. I was 18, and it was one of those moments that stayed with me, along with the orientation guide also letting us know about self-defence classes, and advising that if someone was attacking you, to shout "fire" because it had been proven people were more likely to come to your aid rather than shouting "rape". I was studying Law. What a strange world we live in.