Meeting People (6 Viewers)

[Reets]

Molloy if it's a boy? Then the kid would have the initals MD, which can only be cool, right?

Beats TJ, stupid TV show

 

[тхеодоре кацзынски]

Beats TJ, stupid TV show

what are you on about?hows the gas mask too!?

 

[Jill Hives]

I wouldn't classify coffee, or a drink, as a date.

Pot, kettle, black.

Ha! I didn't mean you personally. Just commenting on the 'Irish' way.

 

[Squiggle]

Ha! I didn't mean you personally. Just commenting on the 'Irish' way.

I know

 

[Reets]

what are you on about?hows the gas mask too!?

Doesn't matter, I thought I was talking to squiggle about names but it was Moods and bonsai, not that anyone gives a shit and now I've just taken up precious space on the internet that could have been used for porn.
The gas mask is fine, not getting rid of it as I couldnt be arsed with ebay.

Now back to meeting people!

 

[ernesto]

I think coffee is friends only, drink is a date.

Molly's a pretty name, just saying...

how so?

surely coffee can be a date or a precurser to one. going out for drinks usually ends up in doing something you regret like gettin the ride on too hastily or lookin like a tit coz youre nervous and have been drinkin like a fish.

especially if the other half doesnt drink (but how often is that gonna happen?)

 

[maims bond]

I'm a bit like that too, it's awful isn't it? I'm even weird about talking to people I know when I meet them somewhere. Do I say Hi, or not? Should I talk to them or only say Hi? I've actually pretended I didn't see someone a few times because I started to panic.

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how so?

surely coffee can be a date or a precurser to one. going out for drinks usually ends up in doing something you regret like gettin the ride on too hastily or lookin like a tit coz youre nervous and have been drinkin like a fish.

especially if the other half doesnt drink (but how often is that gonna happen?)

If someone asked me for coffee I'd assume it's as a friend only, if they wanted to go on a date it'd be for a drink or something to eat.
I thought Coffee dates are for people that don't know each other so it's easier to leave if you don't like them.

 

[ernesto]

If someone asked me for coffee I'd assume it's as a friend only, if they wanted to go on a date it'd be for a drink or something to eat.
I thought Coffee dates are for people that don't know each other so it's easier to leave if you don't like them.

what? well you can get lunch with your coffee, or a danish?
and you can leave anytime on any date, why make it only for a coffee one?!

and i think if you ask someone out somewhere and only as a friend, you make it obvious that its just to catch up or whatever, therefore it doesnt matter whether its boozing of coffee or a wal or whatever

 

[Reets]

I think if you ask someone out somewhere and only as a friend, you make it obvious that its just to catch up or whatever, therefore it doesn't matter whether its boozing of coffee or a wal or whatever

You take your dates to a wall, are you in Berlin now?

But people don't make it clear!
Any woman I've talked to about dating has been on dates without them knowing.

 

[Jill Hives]

I would like to thank this thread for reminding me how much I love my freedom and sanity.
"Dating" seems like a hell of a lot of work.
If it takes this many rules and/or explanations to hang out with someone I can only imagine the hell of being an actual relationship.
I'm pretty lazy so if it's not going to be fun why bother with all the effort?

Incidentally, if getting a cup of coffee constitutes a date in these parts... I've been on more dates than I realized.

 

[SONYMEGADRIVE]

I would like to thank this thread for reminding me how much I love my freedom and sanity.
"Dating" seems like a hell of a lot of work.
If it takes this many rules and/or explanations to hang out with someone I can only imagine the hell of being an actual relationship.
I'm pretty lazy so if it's not going to be fun why bother with all the effort?

what a deranged world view

 

[rettucs]

Still no one can clarify the coffee thing? I just wanna know in case Scutter and I should be picking out baby names at this stage. You people are all mad.

Spencer....

....obviously

has it been more than 9 months since we last met for coffee? Must do it again soon so ......

 

[jonah]

brain... explosion... computer screen... obscured...

I'm going to stick with my left hand.

 

[FiFi_LaRue]

I'm hoping to meet a nice Dutch bloke on rugby tour in two weeks. I can say "how's it going" and "I want a beer" in Dutch ... That should have me sorted right?

If Steve McLaren can do it, why can't I?!

 

[Unicron]

I'm hoping to meet a nice Dutch bloke on rugby tour in two weeks. I can say "how's it going" and "I want a beer" in Dutch ... That should have me sorted right?

If Steve McLaren can do it, why can't I?!

"Howsh id gooinnnk".

 

[FiFi_LaRue]

"Howsh id gooinnnk".

Oh my gott, you shpeak dutsh ashvell?

 

[Unicron]

Yeshhh.

 

[Juno]

Asking someone out is not scary. A spider the size of a dinner plate is scary!

Asking someone out IS scary! I've done it back in t'day but honestly I'd rather deal with plate-spider.

Plus the pros of asking someone out outweigh the cons any day.

I'd agree with this though...in general.

 

[FiFi_LaRue]

Yeshhh.

Aweshome! I vant beersh pleash.