When I was getting married my wife-to-be's aunt said to my mother-in-law-to-be one afternoon "I saw a great present for Cormac and Niamh - two lovebirds in a cage"kirstie said:Ask around. A lot Irish people are greviously offended by lists of wedding. I think they're a great idea, buh.
We heard this, and decided to make a wedding list
Still got some crap presents, mind, but not many