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jane said:Yes, but just because you didn't just come out with the argument doesn't mean it isn't terribly flawed. See my post above, regarding rape. If you can't explain how you'd deal with that, then your argument doesn't hold any water whatsoever. It is based on an assumption that all sex resulting in conception is both consentual and done within an established relationship.
And what you're saying, really, is that in a legal sense, a man's decision about a woman's womb should override hers. Because if a man actually had 'equal' say in it, then it wouldn't need to be legislated for at all. I don't think you are even attempting to understand my points. You can legislate in ways that promote equality, but you absolutely cannot legislate for equality itself, because equality is about individuals negotiation from positions of autonomy. It's about the absence of a need for legislation.
Ok, to clarify.
If a women has become pregnant through rape then she should not need the father's consent. In practical terms that means a woman would have to prove she was raped. You can't dismiss my general point based on the fact that making exceptions for rapists creates problems for rape victims in providing adequate proof, although a lower burden of proof could be required than would ordinarily be the case in a rape trial. Bear in mind that that has to be balanced against the alternative is that man could see his child aborted without his consent.
You refer to a woman's womb, which is standard pro-choice terminology when talking about these things. I am pro-choice myself, but i recognise that many men may not be and may not see it as a woman's womb but as their unborn child. In that case you are balancing an unwanted pregnancy on the pro-choice woman's side versus infanticide on the pro-life man's side. Irrespective of your standpoint on abortion, you can't fairly say that the man's point of view in that case should have no standing.