jane
Well-Known Member
Anyone else not got naught to do for the holidays? All this festive cheer is reminding me that I haven't figured out what I'm doing for the exmass this year, and that I'd want to get on it. What do yizzers who don't do family stuff do for it?
I was hoping to have an orphans' Christmas and cook up a big feast with other people who don't have fambly ones, but everyone seems to have other places to go already. And I could take up a friend on an invite for a family Christmas, but as much as I appreciate that sort of thing, it's been about ten years of watching other people celebrate Christmas while I sit in a real or proverbial folding chair, trying really, really hard not to weep into the marzipan because that just isn't cool, and is a little bit ungrateful. It's not that I don't apprecaite the invitations, it's that it's someone else's Christmas tradition, and it's hard not to feel a teensy bit like walking on eggshells.
So ANYWAYS. I was hoping to go to a non-Christian country to get away from Christmas, but seeing as I am dead broke, that's out of the question, at least for this year.
I've tried hiding from it completely, but that sucks worse. I'm kind of tired of being bummed out every Christmas, so I'm determined to start making up my own Christmas tradition. Anyone have any nifty ideas that aren't family-centered?
I was hoping to have an orphans' Christmas and cook up a big feast with other people who don't have fambly ones, but everyone seems to have other places to go already. And I could take up a friend on an invite for a family Christmas, but as much as I appreciate that sort of thing, it's been about ten years of watching other people celebrate Christmas while I sit in a real or proverbial folding chair, trying really, really hard not to weep into the marzipan because that just isn't cool, and is a little bit ungrateful. It's not that I don't apprecaite the invitations, it's that it's someone else's Christmas tradition, and it's hard not to feel a teensy bit like walking on eggshells.
So ANYWAYS. I was hoping to go to a non-Christian country to get away from Christmas, but seeing as I am dead broke, that's out of the question, at least for this year.
I've tried hiding from it completely, but that sucks worse. I'm kind of tired of being bummed out every Christmas, so I'm determined to start making up my own Christmas tradition. Anyone have any nifty ideas that aren't family-centered?