It just means none of us get to retire effectively
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I can handle the retirement; I can live on very littleIt just means none of us get to retire effectively
I can handle the retirement; I can live on very little
It's the end of life care I'd have concern for
Who's gonna tend to my goddamn disgusting needs??
Depends on the marriage. If you trust your partner and respect the boundaries, it is as risky as introducing anything else. It’s a lot more common than you think and, honestly, I’ve done it and it was never part of a problem in any direction but sharing the housework, the childcare and even balancing priorities for each others’ jobs is waaaaaaay more work and have contributed much more to the stress of my relationship. At the end of the day, it’s the same as anything else - actually talk and make clear your boundaries if it’s something you’re interested in.A very risky thing to introduce into a marriage, I'd guess
I guess having been with Mrs. egg_ for 30+ years this is so wildly outside my personal experience that I haven't the faintest idea of what the possible outcomes would beIf you trust your partner and respect the boundaries, it is as risky as introducing anything else
Here’s the neat part about it, if they are ENM/poly/open/whatever then they’re *still* out there and available.Here leave some girlfriends for the rest of us FFS.
I mean, we’re together over 20 years now so it’s not something we ever thought would happen. It also isn’t “we need to spice things up” because generally feeling like you need to spice things up is a bit of a warning sign and introducing other people into the mix is going to be a clusterfuck. And not in the good way.I guess having been with Mrs. egg_ for 30+ years this is so wildly outside my personal experience that I haven't the faintest idea of what the possible outcomes would be
Here’s the neat part about it, if they are ENM/poly/open/whatever then they’re *still* out there and available.
What do you think it means?no they aren't if I understand the NM part of it correctly
What do you think it means?
Depends what you mean. Some of my friends literally are in love with two different people and they juggle that. It works for them, it’s not something I think I could do. It doesn’t mean they will never have a relationship that’s exclusive. There’s all sorts out there just happy to be happy with people in whatever way works.Non Origami or whatever it is you married types call it
Like sure, ENM's are available for whatever kind of relationship in non commital way, but they are definitely not interested in relationships in the tradition sense, righ?
Depends what you mean. Some of my friends literally are in love with two different people and they juggle that. It works for them, it’s not something I think I could do. It doesn’t mean they will never have a relationship that’s exclusive. There’s all sorts out there just happy to be happy with people in whatever way works.
Yeah, I get what you mean now. It’s another thing to consider for sure but anyone who surprises you with that information any later than your initial conversations should be a major red flag.Like you kinda starting a relationship with a 3rd person never mind the person on the app...
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