I'm not sure what you mean when you say that religion didn't come up with helpful suggestions...
But you're right, I feel that something enormously important has been lost in the modern mindset.
i dont think its helpful that a large chunk of the worlds population believes in a spiteful vengeful god who demands prayer and unquestioning devotion and who frowns upon wanking - in the search for a meaning behind our being i dont think that was a helpful suggestion from the church (i also dont accept that there would be no morality of any kind without religion, they just take credit for it).
i cant argue in favour of any particular position within the context of a debate about religion other than saying i dont believe in "God" and i dont have any better ideas. that doesnt mean i dont engage with the whole business though, i do! i just consistantly fail to come up any thing specific to argue in favour of. i like hedgerows, and ale and pasties and that kinda thing. misty summer mornings in the countryside. usually i would just point straight to this iris dement video - she says it better