... and in case anyone is interested, my latest theory is that complaining about a social role is one of the primary ways in which is enforced. Where I work, for example, most people work way more than the hours that they're contracted to, and then moan about burnout and troubles with managing work-life balance and all that ... and afaics what the moaning does is make everyone feel like they ought to be overworking too, just to be part of the groupI was thinking over the weekend about how social roles are enforced