Oh men are equally dreadful. No denying that, but we know we're dreadful because we're told incessantly just how dreadful we are. I'd wager 100% of men on here have been told exactly how dreadful they are at length by more than one woman and most of their friends. Most of us just have to sit through it and grit our teeth, nodding occasionally to prove we're alive, all the while wishing we were drinking somewhere far away and totally alone.
Try telling a woman she's a dreadful person, see how far you get.
By that definition, I'm a man.