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The trick is to learn to like some of those that hit on you. Much much easier than actually getting good at chatting people up or going down that whole faux disinterest charade rabbit-hole.
Fuck that. Learning to like some of those that hit on you is the exact same as the whole faux interest rabbit hole charade.
Just get better at chatting up.
The trouble I find, is that I can get on great with anyone, be a bit flirty but as soon as I realise
'oh actually, I'm chatting to a really pretty girl and, if I'm not mistaken, it appears to be not going shit, I should do something more like ask her out or for a number or something'
is the point where I suddenly trip up all of my words, mumble something / lob the gob / accidentally spill her drink or something else pathetic, and usually make a tit out of myself.
I'm still terrible at it but I've definitely improved.