why are fellas so fecking mixed messagey! (1 Viewer)

wild_cat

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One day a chap is really into me, then I hear nothing...

I guess I may just quote sex and the city "he just wasnt into you", it doesnt really bother me but like why cant yee just say the fecking truth.

It makes me laugh some lot of things would be easier if people just told each other out straight.
 
I dunno, I suppose id only be wondering whats wrong with me if he had of said it out straight this way I can think "he deleted my number by accident" , "he lost his phone"
 
Yeah my friend lauren has a whole phone book of fellas who she will never text, its like she collects them or something.
 
Agree with Moose

Sometimes, the silly games we play just get too tiresome, especially as you get a bit older. "She was really into you" "Well why was she ignoring me last night?" "That's because she was into you" "So, what was I meant to do?" "Persevere"

"Well I persevered, what's her problem now?" "You were too eager"
 
When it works between you, you'll know.
When it doesn't, you'll know.

People can be hot and cold because they don't know what they want.
Not knowing what you want isn't very attractive.
So if he's gone cold, forget about him!

As moose said, the ladies can be guilty of this too.
Thanks to relationship doublespeak, when a girl tell you she'll ring you soon, she actually means:
'Ring me when you get freaked out I didn't ring you'
So then you figure, 'I won't ring her, she said she'll ring me'
Et voila! Headwrecking leads to moving on and moving on leads to getting spotted with someone else which leads to accusations of being a two-timing bastard.
Or maybe that's just me.
 
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Just ask straight out and take their response as the truth. 'Are you interested?'. If they're not interested or can't give you a definite response, just forget about it. They had their opportunity. Life's too short to get involved in games.
 

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