Zackly!I turned my want list email off. Too much temptation and trying to cut down on buying records. Which has worked but now I’m buying more books instead!
As for feedback, I generally leave the buyer feedback as soon as I send the item. Sometimes you get a feeling about someone who is going to be trouble so I hold off until I know they have the item and they’re happy.
As a buyer I leave feedback after I get the item and play it through.