I suppose the thing to do is cut that stuff off before it gets to that stage, telling our mates to cop on when they make some shitty comment or sexist joke, trying to end the culture of tolerance for the minor things before they build up to the big ones.I'm only trying to form my thoughts about this, but i've been sorta background thinking - you know the way people talk about men calling out mens behavoir - like do they understand that unless we are close, we don't talk, and even then, men just don't know about these things. I've never had a male aquaintence tell me he was out groping women in the bar or up to stalking or whatever
Edit: What Jonah said essentially.